Competitive Kids Sports - Are They Pushing the Limit?

There are a lot of issues that confront American children in today's day and age, but one of the most serious is competitive sports. While sports are meant to be an enjoyable part of childhood, increasingly kids are being required to do more to play. Children who are pushed to the edge of what they are physically capable of often are at risk of becoming burned out with the sport and quitting early. However, a more dangerous consequence could be actually physical damage. Kids even in high school in most cases are still growing and developing. Sports can cause huge amounts of strain to be put on the body and in some cases it can be too much for kids. It seems that seasons for sports are becoming longer every year, and the kids who are playing seem to be getting younger also. At a young age sports are meant to be played for enjoyment not to be competitive. Kids playing and practicing competitively for sports too early in their lives can cause serious damage in the future.

A new tradition is beginning to emerge in today's society. Rather than being given the opportunity to just enjoy sports, and be able to have fun, kids are being thrown into competitive sports at an earlier age. Generally, the kids are not the ones who are asking to play competitively. Instead, the parents are to blame for signing their child up for competitive sports. It is a fact that kids who are ten years old or younger simply are not ready for the strains that are demanded from today's athletes. Kids need to learn to love the game early on. They need to be able to have fun and not worry about making mistakes. This is best said by John McCarty, who runs Home Run Baseball Camp. "With a 10-year-old, you want him to fall for the sport hard. He can pick up the details later."

When considering competitive sports, it is not just the games that are demanding, but even the practices that are potentially harmful to kids who are still growing and developing. On a survey that was conducted by the Youth Sports Institute on why kids drop out of sports early, one particular answer was often repeated. Kids want practices to be more fun. At a young age, baseball practices should be geared more at developing fundamentals. These could be hitting, throwing, and catching. This is what most recreational leagues focus on. However, competitive baseball teams choose to focus on much more complicated strategies- base running tactics, hitting strategies, and infield plays. This is also where most of the conditioning occurs. Coaches will have kids run at the beginning of practice, during base running drills, for mistakes that are made, and at the end of practice. When you add it all up, there is a lot of running being done. For older more mature youths this is a perfectly acceptable expectation; but for example at ten or eleven, this can be very harmful.

According to Dr. Lyle Micheli who is the director of sports medicine at Children's Hospital Boston, some new evidence suggests that extreme amounts of running can damage growth plates. Micheli says that the exact amount of running that this would take is uncertain, but the recommendation is that children between 10 and 14 should not be running more than 3 miles per day. This may seem like a high number but in reality it is very attainable. High intensity practices could have kids running several miles. This is especially true during weeks of conditioning.

While practices cause problems, games present another series of challenges. This is where the stress and the pressure are really shown. After all, the practices, hard work and time spent all lead up to game days. Competitive teams are there to win, plain and simple. As a result kids are forced to play harder. There is one particular position in baseball that seems to be more demanding than most others and that is pitching. There are several reasons for this but one of the most important is that pitching requires specialization to excel. This specialization is dangerous.

It forces kids to use the same muscles repeatedly which doctors have warned, poses health risks. Aside from overspecialization, it is a common fact that having your best pitcher on the mound gives you a way better chance to win. Unfortunately, this usually leads to overthrowing one or two kids which poses a major threat as well. There is a lot of strain put on the arm from throwing pitches repeatedly. It can lead to damage of every muscle in the arm, especially for young kids who still have developing muscles. Consider this, major league pitchers throw once and then have several days for a break. In this time: they have excellent trainers to help their arm recover, not to mention that their muscles were finished developing a long time ago.

These are perks that no ten year old has and the results show. A certain procedure known as Tommy John ligament surgery was in the past reserved for people in the twenties or in some cases older. This is not the case anymore. Recently there have been kids who are as young as 12 that are undergoing this procedure. Why are kids so young being put subjected to this? The culprit is overthrowing as early at age 8 or 9.

Sports that children play, however, are not just limited to baseball. No matter what sport you pick it is a fact that competitive play is very intense. Coaches have high expectations for players, and if they are not met then they are benched. This attitude of not being benched pushes kids to the limit to stay in the game. Whenever you make kids play at a level that they simply aren't ready for it can lead to injury. The best example for this is football, but really any high intensity sports could be applicable in this instance. Soccer, track, basketball, and others all fit into this category.

According to Dr. Lyle Micheli, the types of injuries that he sees in kids have changed in the past 10-15 years. It has always been common for injuries such as broken bones and sprains to occur, but things have changed. Instead, a new kind of problem has begun to surface. "Now he's treating more and more repetitive stress injuries, particularly a disorder called osteochondritis dissecans (OCD)" This very comparable to a stress fracture. The difference is the joints alone are affected. This means that it is basically targeting the exact location of the growth plates. This is a serious problem. When the growth plate is injured, growth can completely stop.

Aside from damage to growth plates there is another very serious problem facing kids who are playing competitively. Concussions, which are a very serious problem that kids, who bodies are still developing, are facing mainly in soccer and football. In soccer, concussions are a very real threat. This is especially true if a child is learning the more advanced techniques that go along will the game such as heading the ball. Recently, evidence has surfaced linking heading the ball and concussions together. It has also been shown to cause an even more severe effect- brain damage. Physicians have now learned that it doesn't necessarily require a major blow to the head. Even multiple small hits can cause concussions.

Soccer practice heading drills could provide this very situation needed for this damage to occur. Another sport known to be a cause for concussions as well as other injuries is football, mainly at a young age. Again, this is depending upon the level of intensity that the kids are playing at. Competitive leagues are full contact and require extremely hard play while recreational leagues, especially at young ages are flag football. Flag football takes away the contact element thereby removing the main cause of injury in this sport. This game still teaches the fundamentals of the game, and at the same time protects kids from damage that could be permanent.

Youth competitive sports are dangerous and should be monitored closely. According to Safe Kids USA, it is estimated that 3.8 million children who play sports in the United States are treated for sports related injuries. With the numbers being that high, it is clear something must be done. This does not mean that sports should be completely taken away. Sports can be an important part of kid's lives. They have a lot to offer today's when played for fun and in moderation. Children should be given time in order to properly heal rather than being thrown out onto the field. This could prevent permanent damage from being done and could stop a minor injury from becoming something that will affect them the rest of their lives. There is one instance I can think of from my own experience. While playing for a competitive baseball team in eighth grade I slid badly into third base and broke my ankle and torn ligaments as well.

As soon as it happened, the pain was so extreme that I could barely stand up. I told my coach that I needed to go out, I knew that I was done. Instead of taking me out this is what he told me, "you are fine, shake it off and run home on the next play, it is going to be a squeeze play". While I knew that it would be incredibly painful to run, I thought that the humiliation in front of friends and family would be worse. The next play I ran (or should I say limped) to home plate. I have no doubt that the injury from sliding was bad; but I believe that having to run after it happened is where the damage occurred. From this injury I now have chronic pain as well as a lack in range of motion. In a recreational league this obsessive drive to win does not exist and this most likely would have been avoided. This drive to win begs the question: is this really a rational behavior, and more importantly is it worth it? Is a lifetime of physical pain and health problems worth winning a game that no one will remember in twenty years?

You can be the judge.

Safety Equipment for Inline Skating for Kids

When a kid loves skating, the feeling of the kid when he or she skates is like they are dancing on a frozen pond in a winter wonderland. When your kid starts to skate and already loves doing it, you will definitely enjoy watching your kid, whether you are just sitting outside the ring or joining your kid in the fun. But before you let your kid go have a skate on the rink, you better stop your kid and let him or her wear the safety equipment for the inline skating first. If you don't have safety equipment for inline skating, it would be better that you purchase them first before letting them skate. You don't want your kid get injured in a skating accident. Here are some safety equipments for kids who want to do inline skating.

• Helmet for inline skating is the most important piece of safety equipment needed. The helmet protects the head from impact and absorbs the shock when the kid is in an accident and hit the kids head. So when the kid has his or her helmet on his head, the helmet will prevent any bruises and brain damage if an accident occurs. This is required especially if your kid is experiencing his or her first time in the rink or trail.

• Knee Pads are important for protecting the knees of the kid when the kid falls down and hit his knees to the ground which will end up as a bruise or scrapes if no knee pads are worn. There are many types of elbow pads to choose from. Choose an elbow pad that is comfortable to your kid. If your kid is energetic and prone to accidents, buy a bigger knee pad to protect his knees in a longer range.

• Elbow pads are next in the line since your kid uses his feet in skating doesn't mean that if he falls down he won't hit is elbows. The kid's elbows will sometimes get hit when they fall down in the rink or trail. Like knee pads, the elbow pads are flexible. There are also elbow pads for kids that are energetic and prone to accidents. So if your kid is energetic buy a larger elbow pad to protect your kid's elbow.

• Wrist injuries are common in inline skating, so buy a wrist guard to protect your kid from wrist injuries. Buying a wrist guard will protect your kid from wrist injury. Watch him or her carefully if you are just standing by and watching your kid. Since he or she wears wrist guards, you won't have to worry about wrist injuries on your kid. Wrist guards can be tricky to wear, so have someone who knows how to wear them.

These are some of the equipments that can be bought in a sports store for your kid. Keeping the kid safe is a parent's duty. So, take you time in buying the right and comfortable equipment for your kid. A kid's happiness is a mother's joy.

Internet Safety For Kids - Google+ The New Formula?

Google has released a new social media application platform -- Google+. Should we, as parents, be concerned for the safety of your kid on the Internet? A new formula may have emerged: Google PLUS your kid PLUS the Internet PLUS busy parents EQUALS the safety of your kids on the Internet reduced once again.

Google+ is the latest social media platform, launched by the Internet search giant Google. Google+ was launched recently and is already making its mark on the Internet. Looking from a perspective of your kids safety on the Internet, Google has only made the platform available to those who are 18 years old and older. As the popularity and number of users for Google+ grows, there is an incredible amount of attention given to the safety of your kids on the Internet.

Although Google+ is available only to adults, there is always the possibility of younger kids and teens being drawn to the massive appeal of the platform. We should know that not all children are bound by these age limitations and regulations. Sometimes, curiosity and temptation to hop in the bandwagon gets the better of the kid. While most of us grew up during the development of computers and Internet, our kids have grown up surrounded by computers, the Internet and especially social networking applications. Waiting until 18 to check out the latest social network platform is not really an option for most of them, and regardless of age limitations it is always possible for even a 10 year old to create an email address and register on Google+, posing as an 18 year old. This fact alone should be compelling enough for you to take the opportunity to discuss safety for kids on the Internet with your kid, with a strong focus on the many dangers of careless social networking.

The Google+ platform comes with sufficient social networking features. If you are used to other social networking applications such as Facebook, MySpace or Skype then you will be familiar with the Google+ features. The Google+ features deliver functionality via various categories, such as: Circles, Sparks and Hangouts. Circles is just another way to connect with your circle of friends. Hangouts is another way to share information with the right people. Sparks is another way to share videos and articles with your circle of friends. You can filter and categorize online friends and deliver video and article content delivery to your trusted friends and family. Other features allow you to automatically upload pictures and an easy way to keep in touch with your friends through texting services. Once again, the possibility for these features to be misused by under-aged kids is always present.

The main threat to kids who use social networking platforms, such as Google+, is the ability for too much or the wrong information to leak onto the Internet. To keep this information leakage in check you should be explain to your kid that they should not to talk to strangers, they should not accept non trusted people into their circle of friends, and they should not hangout with people that they do not know. If you think about this, this advice is not that much different from the advice given to you by your parents. I am sure at some point your parents have told you (as a kid) that you should not talk to strangers, and you should not hang out with people you do not know. The big difference, however, is that the platform now is different from when we were kids. Kids today interact with each other through a virtual, online world, instead of the offline, non virtual world. This is why online safety for kids is exceptionally important and should be discussed with patience.

Let your children know that while social networking is not 100% inappropriate (Facebook's age limit is above 13 and the majority of its 750 million strong user base are teenagers), it is necessary to keep certain information confidential. One of the most basic Internet safety guidelines for kids is to control the amount of information released on to the Internet via kid's social networking profile; the Google+ profile. Since it is virtually impossible to keep your kid out of Google+ without breaking their heart, you too can join Google+ and make friends with your kid online. This way, you get to see the online activities of your kid, identify any potential danger that your kid may get themselves into, and become knowledgeable about the Google+ application platform.

Becoming aware of the Google+ platform is probably your greatest asset. By understanding how Google+ works (and it is not that difficult) you will be able to guide your children safely through the social networking maze of Google+.

In my opinion, you don't have to be a mathematical genius to understand the Internet safety formula or kids. It takes just common sense. To an extent you have the ability to change the formula, which will have the net effect of keeping your kid safe on the Internet.

Sleep Tight Little Angels, the Bed Bugs Won't Bite With These Kids Beddings

Camping out with the kids while out on an ATV riding trip can be fun during the holidays. However, when it comes down to camping and staying overnight outdoors in some strange and foreign land, mosquitoes and comfort is an issue. This is where ATV kids bedding will come in handy. Under no circumstance should your kids be left to sleep in extremely uncomfortable kids bedding because if their sleep quality is bad, the ride home is going to be worse! So, here are some tips and advice on how to help your kids achieve quality sleep with top quality kids' beddings when out on an ATV riding trip.

First of all, it's got to be a kids' bedding that is designed to fit a kid. it wouldn't be all that comfortable is the kids bedding was made for adults. If your kid is still under 12, there is a small risk of them being snuffled or getting buried too deep within the kids bedding. Therefore, if you don't already have proper kids bedding for this purpose, it's time to shop for one now...unless you like the idea of grouchy kids in the morning.

Although this is not the most important reason why you should invest in a kids bedding made exclusively for kids, you should try to get kids bedding with prints that appeals to kids. Something colorful and attractive, fun and exciting! Kids beddings with designs that make them want to cuddle up inside and stay there! It is common for kids to sleep in their own kids bedding at night and end up in one of their parent's sleeping bag the next morning...it can get pretty uncomfortable for both parent and child because a single sleeping bag is not made to accommodate more than 1 adult or two kids. To prevent that from happening, help them 'like' their own kids bedding - this way, they won't end up waking up in yours the next morning. In fact, get them to choose their own kids bedding for the trip, so that chances of them skipping over to yours in the middle of the night is minimized.

Kids beddings should always be comfortable and yet warm on the inside - this is important if you don't want them catching the sniffles in the morning. Cotton is always best when it comes to comfort but cotton kids bedding don't provide enough warmth for them to last the night especially during cold nights. So, what you can do is to top it up with kids blanket, stuff it into and under the covers of the kids bedding and give them a warm water bottle. This should do the trick.

Kids Safety On The Internet - The Technology Blame Game?

I cannot blame technology, the Internet included, for your kids safety (or unsafety) on the Internet. I have spent more than twenty-five years in the technical field, and it would be ironic and shameful if I was promoting something that was putting my kid in danger. However, something is to blame, and I tend to come back to the same question "Are your kids in more danger today compared to when you were their age?"

I truly believe they are in more danger now than when we were kids. Let's look at three different scenarios to give some context to my opinions: bullying, sexual predators, and violent content.

Stop The Cyber Bully?

Think about when you were roughly the same age as your child. What were you were doing in the school yard? If you were unlucky, then you as a kid may have been bullied by other kids at the school. Maybe you even witnessed a bullying incident. Bullying in your kid-days typically remained in the school yard. When it was time to go home, the mental effects of bullying possibly trailed home with you, and when you returned to school the next day, the bullying may have picked up from where it left off - verbal and possibly physical abuse. The key thing is that you did not drag the bullying home with you. It stayed at school. Today, a kid usually does not have the luxury of leaving the bullying on the school grounds. The bullying can follow them wherever they go, called cyber bullying.

Cyber bullying is Internet-based, and you did not have the Internet as a kid. The closest resemblance to something like the Internet was probably a telephone or a ham radio -- and I'm really stretching my imagination. If someone wanted to spread the bullying word about you, the best they could probably do is tell their school friends or maybe spread the bully word by telephone -- a very slow and laborious way of spreading the bully word.

Today, however, the bullying word spreads exceptionally fast, and its difficult to stop cyber bullying. I have witnessed live bullying episodes on the Internet, namely Twitter and Facebook. Not only does the bullying word spread fast, but those who instigate it can do so anonymously. During your kid-days bullying was usually face-to-face, so you knew exactly who was behind the events. Today the probability of the bully remaining anonymous is fairly high. They just hide behind fake profiles and userid's, then launch "operation clandestine bully spread".

Predators On The Internet?

Then there is the predator world. As a kid did you ever have a fear of being stalked by a predator? Did you ever think they (the stalker) was going to take you away and do mean? Did your parents think behind every dark corner lurked a predator? I know for a fact that I never feared such a thing, and neither did my parents. If my parents had concerns it definitely did not overwhelm or rule their lives. Once in awhile they may have reminded me "Not to talk with strangers". In fact, I felt extremely safe -- walked to school & my friends by myself and played outside after sunset. Even though there may have been real dangers I never felt threatened. I felt totally safe!

Today, as a parent I am extremely conscious of the Internet Predator. I have already educated my kid about chat rooms and how not to communicate with strangers. I'm definitely not an old-fashioned parent, but my instincts tell me to keep myself alert and watch for any tell-tale signs that my kid is in predator danger.

It's obvious that Predators on the Internet are a real concerns amongst many parents. I am constantly witnessing parents telling their kids not to friend anyone on Facebook that they do not know. The hip parents tell their kids "NOT TO LMIRL" to anyone that they have not previously met in real life (aka. Don't talk with strangers). In the Twitter world. many Twitter Teens already have a huge amount of followers, and would venture to guess that they do not even know who most of them are. I've seen kids with thousands of followers, and even if they had a fraction of the amount of followers that they have, there is no practical way that they know every one of them. So basically, if your kids are on Twitter they are probably talking to strangers - I'm sure many more strangers than you spoke to as a kid.

The Meaning Of Violence?

When you start comparing the violence that you as kid were exposed to compared to today's kids, there is a dramatic difference. When I was the same age as my son is now the extent of the violent content I was exposed to was negligible compared to that of today's kids.

I was born in South Africa, and as a form of entertainment, my parents rented 16mm reel-to-reel movies on the weekend. The 16mm reel-to-reel movies were South Africa's equivalent of North America's, once popular, Beta or VHS. The 1967 Bonnie & Clyde was the most violent movie that my parents ever rented, which we (the kids) were sent to our bedrooms to play while they (our parents) watched movie. Every once in awhile we used to sneak a peek and get our dose of blood & gore. Bonnie & Clyde, by the way, is rated R by the MPAA, and Age 14 by Common Sense Media.

Fast forward to 2011 -- I can list at least a dozen Internet or console based games that are extremely violent in nature, and know of kids that are under 10 years old who play these games. I won't go into details about the games, but they are rated "Not for Kids" and "5 circle violence" by Common Sense Media. Today's violent content does not fit into the Bonnie & Clyde genre - what was rated R in 1967 seems to be rated OK for today's teens. It is relative though, in 1967, as a kid, I was trying to watch content that was "not for kids" and in 2011 kids are still immersed in content that is "not for kids", albeit the content is more graphically violent -- eg. "Call of Duty".

About The Internet For Kids

So when you start comparing kids to now and when you where a kid, it should be clear that today's kids are more susceptible to dangers than yesterdays kids. Your initial inkling, after taking into account bullying, sexual predators, and violent content is to probably blame the Internet. Isn't the Internet the big difference between now and then? It may seem so, but I do not believe the Internet and technology is to blame.

The Internet is just an efficient mechanism to get messages, information, and content from one place to another, and has not changed the underlying cause or motivation of human behavior. There are many documented stories that show bullying, violence and other related incidences and are part of our history. Internet or no Internet there will still be bullying, sexual predators, and violent content. The Internet has just made access to content, messages and information much easier and more pervasive than it's ever been.

I believe that we can not totally eliminate bullying, the sexual predator, and violent content because in order to do so we will need to dig really deep and start altering almost everything about society -- not a realistic endeavor. We need to live with the consequences of our progression, and keep on managing and tame the elements that have put our kids in potential danger. Even though I do not blame technology and the Internet as the source of our kids safety (or unsafety), I fully recognize that the Internet has given bullying, predators, and violent content an easy, and inexpensive way to access and abuse the unassuming kid.

The bullying message can be carried more quickly, efficiently and anonymously than a face-to-face conversation; Predators can hide behind smoke screens and pretend to be younger than they say; Content, violent or tame, can be distributed through the Internet more easily than renting a game or a video. The Internet is not going away, and is evolving quickly.

We still need to do what we do best - that is guide our kids safely until they are able to take over that responsibility themselves. It is necessary and important that we continue learning how to tame the 'Internet beast'. We will get there, but for now our persistence to guide our kids safely through the Internet must prevail.